Saturday, April 11, 2009

The Results III

The most painful part of the report was to learn that I was part of the problem, perhaps the biggest.

According to the report there were two problems. 1) a problem with "sustaining attention" and 2) an ongoing conflict with me. He was feeling that there was "something wrong with him" and that I was putting on him a big "pressure to perform" that he could't meet. Understandably, this was bringing a great deal of anxiety, uncertainty, frustration, feelings of rejection, feeling of not being understood, poor self image, loneliness and emptiness.

I was totally devastated and for days I felt misserable, depressed and terribly guilty.

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