The evaluation of the "Evaluator": My second struggle.

My wife didn't like the first psychologist because this guy said that having him repeat third grade might have been actually detrimental and made the problem worst.

He might be right or he might not, I don't know, however, I expect from a psychologist some degree of empathy as opposed to telling me in the first session that I screwed up with a decision I had taken 6 month before.

We didn't like the second one either. He looked like a Hollywood celebrity, wearing ultrafashion glasses, driving a convertible BMW and sounding more like an astrologyst or a preacher than a psychologyst. He did said something that conforted me: He said that having two parents with diametrally different approaches to parenting (as he quickly glanced) was probably beneficial for my son because it would make him more creative and intelligent. 

Nevertheless, we went to a third one, a woman, recommended by somebody else. The difference between this woman and the previous two men is that this woman is "out of network" meaning that I have to pay out of my pocket 4 times what I payed the other two guys (which only charged me the "copayment" which is already expensive because my Health insurance sucks). Furthermore, all the hassle of fighting the Health Insurance company to get some of the expense reimbursed (if any) is now on my shoulders.